Thursday, August 28, 2008

OK, I SAID IT

I'm going to put myself out there...yes I'm single. The one thing I get tired of hearing is "WHY you don't have a man?" 'Cause I'm not looking for one.(Did you detect head moving and eyes rolling?) BREAKING NEWS: EVERY SINGLE PERSON IS NOT LOOKING. Have you ever thought that maybe we like being single. Or better yet we refuse to SETTLE . You know what they say I can do bad by myself.I DON'T need a man to complete me. I've already been made whole by the only ONE I need validation from. What I need, when I'm ready to allow a man in life, in my space, is a man who don't mind being my friend. I'm not hatin' because some of my best friends are married or in long term relationships. They are happy and I'm happy for them. The point I'm trying to make here is: it's okay to be single until you chose not to be. Oh yeah, one more thing because I don't have a man I'm not lonely or sad; I'm just waiting until I'M READY.

1 comment:

Deborah Robinson said...

Good things come to those who wait is an old cliche some would say, but oh so true! Don't settle but be obedient to the will of God. He has a plan for you and for your life, allow him to be your guide in life and everything will be greater than even you could imagine. Whenever we take total control of things in our lives is when we mess up ... so having said that I use the same old cliche, good things come to those who wait... so wait on God and you will be pleased with the results I promise.